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31 Days of Rest & Risk :: Day 26 ~ Playboy

October 26, 2012 By Greg

The Last Freaky Friday
I’m published… but not how you might think.

On October 26, 1991, (21 years ago), my good friend Lara Oliver asked me to escort her to her Debutante Ball in the Trump Plaza in New York City. My best friend Tim Webster was dating Lara at the time, but she needed two escorts, so she asked me.

It was a risk.

* Thousands of people from many countries would be attending this event.
* I’d have to wear a black tuxedo and white gloves.
* I’d have to learn how to waltz.
* I’d have to waltz with Lara in front of “the world”.

This was before Dancing With The Stars was popular. Waltzing was not something 23 year old guys were doing for fun… at least not me.

They say what happens in Vegas… stays in Vegas…
but evidently what happens in New York… gets published in Playboy!

All the details of how a photograph of me, Tim, a couple other escorts, and a Debutante, got published for the feature article for Playboy in March of 1992, aren’t important for this post… Maybe for another time… and please don’t go check to see if I’m telling the truth…
just trust me 🙂

Being published in Playboy was something I was embarrassed about for 19 years…
but now it’s a memory I cherish… because…

… my friend, Lara Oliver Webster died on February 5, 2010 of a brain tumor.
She was 39. Mother of 3 kids. Married to my best friend for 15 years.

Lara’s funeral was amazing! Over 1500 people, from around the United States attended her celebration. She was an amazing person. Caroline spoke at the funeral as her close friend… another honor we accepted… that has lasting memories. If you have 5 minutes… here is a video put together by Mike Eller of her celebration service.
(If you can’t watch it below, just click here to go right to the vimeo site)

Lara was and is a Christian. She is now “home” with Jesus. We will see her again…
and when we do, I’m sure we will reminisce a little about that ridiculous weekend in NYC.

Because I took a risk, and escorted Lara to her Debutante Ball in 1991…
I had the honor of waltzing with Lara Oliver Webster…
at The Trump Plaza…
in New York City…
in front of the world.

It’s a ridiculously good memory I have with Lara that reminds me of what’s really important in life.

~ Greg

{This is a series of posts for 31 Days of Rest & Risk. To read the other posts, click here.}

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  1. Gwen says

    October 26, 2012 at 1:05 pm

    YES GREG,JUST AS YOU SHARED••YOUR MEMORIES OF LARA AT THE DESCENDENTS OF THE
    MAYFLOWER DEBUTANTE BALL AT THE
    TRUMP PLAZA IN NYC DID ACTUALLY TAKE PLACE. YOU CAN BE TRUST WORTHY, WE HAVE SEEN THE NEWS PHOTO.
    WE SEE THIS RISK AS, NO PAIN INVOLVED.
    ONLY TO PERFORM PUBLICLY BEFORE THE WORLD WITH A SERVANTS HEART (SUPPORTING YOUR GOOD FRIENDS TIM AND LARA).
    TO CHERISH MEMORIES OF LARA IS
    A BLESSING FOR ALL WHO KNEW HER IN THIS LIFE. PLEASURE TO REVIEW THE VIDEO AGAIN OF THE LARA WE LOVE.
    JUST A MOMENT••FOR MY VISION OF THE PERFECT WALTZ WITHOUT RISK•• “I SEE KING DAVID PLAYING A GOLDEN HARP SURROUNDED BY MULTITUDES••ALL PRAISING GOD, SINGING, DANCING(WALTZING)

  2. LadyM says

    October 27, 2012 at 12:29 am

    Thanks for sharing! That’s neat how an old embarassing memory can now be sacred because of the sacredness of life.
    LadyM recently posted..Day 26

  3. Anna says

    October 27, 2012 at 6:40 am

    That’s awesome! If you’re going to be in Playboy that’s probably the safest possible reason.
    Anna recently posted..We All Have a Story: Link it Up

  4. Cindy Carson says

    February 17, 2013 at 3:10 pm

    Greg and Caroline! Thank you for putting this online. Very thankful. One of our friends in our Shepherd’s Community in Lakeland, has also gone “home” and her husband and two great kids are still stunned as are the rest of us. Makes me think of Tim and Lara. Wondered if he may even want to talk with Tim at some point. Great people. God is so able to infuse His glory right in the middle of everything. Thankful for that. Much love from us Carsons!

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